Children Can Change This Much Through "How We Interact". The New Common Sense Showing Individuality Shines Through Doting Parent Love × Science [April Dream]

Children can change this much through "how we interact".

The new common sense where "individuality" shines, shown by doting parent love × brain science

"I want to develop this child's individuality more."
While wishing for this,

Not knowing how to interact with them——

We have heard many such voices.

Until now, parenting has been left to
experience and intuition.

But now, there is something we can say clearly.

A child's future changes based on "how we interact" with them.

■ Shifting to the concept of "Individuality" instead of "Talent"

Conventional education has placed importance on
"developing talent."

However, there is something important that comes before that——
That is "individuality."

Individuality is not about
superiority or inferiority, but about "difference."

It is an irreplaceable value
that every child already possesses.

We advocate for an approach of
"utilizing individuality" rather than
"developing talent."

■ Doting parent love is the "scientific foundation for developing individuality"

What we value is the concept of
"doting parent love".

It is not simply about spoiling the child.

It is a "resolute love" that believes in,
acknowledges, and continues to support one's child's individuality.

The brain develops precisely within
an environment of "safety," "approval," and "expectation."

A parent's gaze and words have a direct impact on a child's brain,

building the foundation for self-esteem and the ability to take action.

In other words, doting parent love is not an intuition,
but an "environment that nurtures individuality"
backed by brain science.

■ Children whose individuality is utilized will create their own future

Children learn to believe in themselves
to the extent that they are acknowledged.

The experience of being told "That's good,"
The moment of being encouraged with "Let's try it,"
　The memory of being accepted even when they failed

All of these transform into
the power to take on challenges.

A child whose individuality is utilized becomes a child
who can choose and advance on their own path,
rather than following someone else's correct answer.

■ The common sense of education is starting to change now

What is needed in the coming era is not
the "ability to produce the correct answer,"

but the "ability to think, act, and choose for oneself."

The Children and Families Agency and the Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, Science and Technology (MEXT)
are also emphasizing the importance of independence and non-cognitive skills.

At the core of this is
how we interact at home.

■ If the parent changes, the child's individuality will blossom

Children come to know themselves through their parents' words,
gain confidence through their parents' gaze,
and envision their future through their parents' interaction.

That is exactly why

If the parent changes, the child changes.
If the child changes, the future changes.

■ Creating parents and children whose individuality shines all over Japan

From the perspective of
doting parent love × brain science, we

aim for a society where each child's individuality shines naturally,
and parents and children can grow together.

Transforming parenting from "something difficult" into
"time spent creating the future."

■ Your one step will make individuality shine

No special talent is required.

What is needed is to
believe in your child's individuality.

And to change how you interact with them just a little.

From "somehow just parenting" to
"evidence-based interaction."

That one step will
greatly change your child's future. Creating a world where everyone's dreams come true.

General Incorporated Association Hitoiku
https://hitoiku.net/